Tuesday, July 21, 2015

4th of July at King's Canyon and Sequoia National Parks... with the Russells!

We were long overdue for a camping trip and a visit with the Russells - so we combined them for a great vacation over the 4th of July. We met in the "middle" at King's Canyon and Sequoia National Parks. As we neared the park, the skies grew ominous, and we ended up setting up camp in the rain. Fortunately, just as Josh and Miranda arrived, so did the sun, and we didn't see any rain for the rest of the trip. It was Addison's first time camping, and she is a natural - she LOVES to be dirty and outside. She had an episode the second night where Mike ended up driving her around in the middle of the night until she stopped crying... but otherwise, she was fantastic. Her brother slept like a champ and LOVED having the Russells with us - Josh is definitely his new BFF, and Mir his new crush. :)
 
 
Left: Here comes the rain!  Right: Andrew using his homemade binoculars to look for the "big trees".
As usual, pictures do not do the scenery justice.  The Canyon is really beautiful.
 

 







 
 
A brief review of Boyden Cavern: If you'd like to be transported back to the '80's (or before), stop here. It's as if all the potential lawsuits and federal regulators completely overlooked this little tourist spot - with hardly more than a handrail to prevent serious falls in some spots, and the option to take the narrow "Adventure Route" where certain body types were not suggested (the guide's words, not mine!). However, for the kids' (and Miranda's) first time in a cave, this was perfect... short enough, not too many rules, but still cold, dark and full of dirt and rocks - just what Addison and Andrew love most.



After turning off the light so we could experience complete darkness, Andrew was a little nervous.  So, the guide gave him his walkie-talkie/flashlight. I was concerned it may break and he'd lose contact with the rest of his team, but the guide reassured(?) me that it's no good this deep in the mountain anyway.

 
 
Back at Camp: I can't believe I didn't get a pic of the full camp setup, but it was a great site!
 

 



Mir prepping an awesome dinner, and Josh... cheering her on?


 
 
General Sherman Tree - Reminder to Self: Do not book next National Park vacation over the 4th. General Sherman is the largest tree by volume (not height or width), and apparently everyone in Sequoia National Park wanted to see it on the 4th of July. We had to be shuttled down to the tree, and the kids were not impressed.

You can't really tell in this pic, but they were both in tears.


  

I took 500 pictures of Addison - and 5 came out. 
She's always moving and she's super expressive (wonder where she gets that from),
so half the pictures are either blurry or she appears drunk.

 

 

 


"Cheeeeese"

See what I mean?







I spy a deer.
Watching the sunset on the 4th. No fireworks here!
 
 


I was going to comment that I'm a better photographer (taking the pic of Mike above), but I think he's actually a better model.  ;)
 
This was either right before or right after Andrew pooped behind the rock.



 

 
 
On our last day, we went to see General Grant... the second largest tree by volume (even though the pic below says third... I think that is outdated based on 2015 park brochures... either way, some cool stats below if you zoom). This was a waaay better experience than Sherman - hardly anyone there, a neat tree to walk through, cooler morning, etc. And to be honest, when trees are this big - you can't tell the difference between the 1st and 2nd anyway. They are all pretty damn amazing.
 


 



 



 
 


 

 


 




Thursday, July 9, 2015

Observations of a (New) Stay at Home Mom

With my first two weeks of officially being a SAHM over, I have made some observations. Adopting a scientific view of this stage in my life, I am conducting experiments, doing daily research and (lucky for you all) recording our progress. I'm hypothesizing that much will change over the next year of my most recent "Adventure (Experiment?) in Parenting", so I'm capturing my current thoughts as a "newbie" in order to compare them to where we are a year from now.

Observations:
- I do not, for one minute, wish I was back at my old job.
- Currently, I do not wish I was at any job... other than this SAHM gig.
- My children have become clingy and extra "lovey" to me... like they're afraid this time will end so they have to get their hugs while they can. (On some level, this makes me sad, but I'm not quite sure how to explain why, because I am truly enjoying the extra snuggles.) This clingy-ness also makes all those things that you imagine you would do if you didn't have to work close to impossible (i.e. deep cleaning, blogging, getting a tan). :)
- I am able to go with the flow way more than I give myself credit. This may come from my teaching experience, but I know that if something isn't working or we just aren't in the mood for what I planned, it just isn't gonna happen. And that is okay.
- I am still working on the patience thing. Every yoga practice, I set an intention at the end of class to be more patient... I wonder if I will ever fill up my patience cup. I have observed that I have less patience when I'm distracted. So, I try to engage more and keep the distractions (social media) for naptime.
- Naptime is sacred.
- Getting outside every day is absolutely non-negotiable. The more fresh air and sunshine, the happier we all are (and the longer naptime is... hmm... it doesn't take a PhD in research to see a pattern forming here).
- Money worries me much more than I like to admit. 
- Without the stresses and drama from my old job, I feel lighter, less anxious, more engaged and generally happier.
- I am incredibly aware of just how fortunate I am to be able to do this... and I owe that all to my amazing husband - without him supporting this decision, this excellent adventure would not be possible. I love you Mike!

Pictures from the last month to catch us up:
 
Snail Hunting (YUCKO)
...and this is what happens when you assume they can't crawl out of the bucket. 

It's a Robot. (Notice he initialed his art at the top?)
Andrew had his last day of Soccer and last day of Swim class all in the same week. 

Our first full day together:



My job here is done!
Addison modeling her swim attire:

... and showing her attitude.


With my yogini friend, Carolina's kids... Julia and Sebastian.

Playing with Pyper and our other Sebastian!

 

Heading to the neighbors' (Steve and Abby) one last time before their move.  :(


California Grammy's last night in Mountain House

The first ice cream cone she didn't have to share with her mommy!



Loving the sun and the mud at Lake Del Valle


 
 
Father's Day 2015 -
a trip to Bent Creek Winery and Altamont Brew Works.
 
 
 
It is close to impossible to get both kids smiling and looking at the camera.



 





Friday, June 12, 2015

Adventures in..... Full Time Parenting?

I started this blog to capture the adventure Mike and I embarked on when we became parents. Shortly thereafter it evolved into a way to keep our extended families updated on our lives from across the country. We even added a new little adventurer to our story along the way! Well now, I have a new adventure to blog about - becoming a Stay at Home Mom. In one week from today, I am officially leaving the business world and our comfortable two salary life to be home with the kiddos.  I am super nervous but also thrilled and excited for my new "career".

I'm not sure where the month of May went, but between soccer, swim class, 2 birthday parties, yoga, and... oh right... and that pesky full time job, I am way behind on posts.  So, below are some pics from May to catch us up.


Birthday Party #1
With his best friend Lily... she will be very missed when Andrew stops KinderCare.

Birthday Party #2 - Princess/Knights Theme.  This was before hitting his aforementioned best friend in the face and me dragging him out of the party without any cake. Most embarrassing parent moment so far... hands down.
Getting Swim Ribbon #2 
At the Livermore Wine Festival

Looking more like a teenager than a 16 month old.
Hair - FINALLY!
Now if she'd only leave the bows in!


Annual Fruit Picking - Nectarine, peaches and cherries.